This seems like it should be relatively simple to keep separate...after all, everyone knows that enabling is "bad" or "counter productive". Yet, everyday we see family after family living in the "flexible area" with their loved ones that are suffering from substance abuse or mental health issues - knowingly or not. But what exactly is the gray? Is it safe to stay there? Well...like everything else, this depends on both the individual that is at risk, as well as the family sys